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Foreign lobbies are exerting pressure on the NCERT to introduce sex education in schools. India should not succumb to any such pressure, for, sex education neither gels with the Indian ethos nor would be healthy from the standpoint of reproductive health.
Sex education is a cliché spat out by the sick West which has reduced a healthy socio-biological phenomenon to fun and pastime. Sex is spontaneous, instinctive. One need not be trained for it to be practiced. It comes by itself as the fish take to water. Subtle clues are passed on to daughters even as they grow into families. Hints of what adult life is all about are available aplenty. With TV serials advancing the onset of consciousness, one wonders if anything is being left to imagination. Teaching of reproductive biology also provides sufficient clues.
Sex within marriage needs minimal awareness. Hospitals and family welfare centres too play a role in modern society. Sex education is clearly being propagated as a necessity for practitioners of free sex. Few among the hedonists would acknowledge this. And there is still less realization that free sex victimizes women more than men. Burden of unwanted pregnancies and deliveries—social, biological and economic—invariably falls on women. 98 per cent of the kids born out of wedlock are brought to the child adoption centres only by mothers, not fathers. Dr. Joe Mcllhaney of the US Medical Institute of Sexual Health is on record that the philosophy that directs teens ‘to be careful with condoms’ or ‘to play safe with sex’ has not helped them. It has enticed them into the quagmire of sexual warts, venereal diseases, genital cancer, infertility and the AIDS.
A consumerist lobby is also pushing the agenda of sex education. It eyes a huge market from societal ravages of free sex such as single parent homes, and an ambience where desirability is constantly provoked.
Indians, regardless of religious affiliations, are a modest people. They are loathe to the sanctity of family homes getting spoilt or lineages getting derailed due to missing fathers. n
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