A heart illuminated by divine light (Noorullah) naturally follows the path of righteousness. Ethical earnings and actions are fundamental to spiritual growth, fostering a pure heart and nurturing a loving family environment. The love and care parents provide significantly shape their children’s character and future.
Practices like staying in a state of Wudhu (ritual purification) protect against Shayateen (evil forces) and Nafs (base desires), strengthen our bond with Allah, and guide us toward righteousness. Wudhu helps us avoid sinful acts, engage in virtuous deeds, and ensures contentment in this life and the hereafter.
Children learn by observing and imitating, making it essential for parents to lead by example. In Islam, the mother’s role is noble and vital, characterized by her boundless mercy. The Arabic word for the womb, “Ar-Rahm,” is derived from Allah’s names, Ar-Rahman (The Most Merciful) and Ar-Raheem (The Most Compassionate). The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of family ties, stating, “Verily, the womb is a branch derived from the name of the Most Merciful. He will maintain whoever maintains its relations, and He will cut off whoever cuts off its relations.” (Musnad Ahmad, #2953)
The life of Imam Shafi’s mother is a powerful example of maternal love and guidance. Despite her challenges, she inspired her son to excel. When young Imam Shafi asked for stationery, she encouraged him to use his mind like paper, leading to his remarkable photographic memory. Her story teaches us to inspire others, even in difficult circumstances, and to express gratitude to Allah, who rewards us beyond our imagination.
Effective parenting requires careful planning and reflection on Allah’s blessings. We will be held accountable for how we spend our time in this life. Engaging in meaningful activities and discussing these blessings with our children is crucial, as gratitude multiplies blessings. Parents must observe their children closely, especially in the early years, as these formative years have a lasting impact.
Instilling good eating habits and discipline is essential. Teaching children to respect food as a divine blessing from Allah is vital for their moral and spiritual development. As narrated by Abu Huraira, “A man used to eat a lot, but when he embraced Islam, he started eating less. This was mentioned to the Prophet, who then said, ‘A believer eats in one intestine (is satisfied with little food), and a Kafir eats in seven intestines (eats a lot).'” (Sahih Al-Bukhari)
Incorporating the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah into our daily lives brings joy and fulfillment to our children and ourselves. Regular prostrations and sincere supplication to Allah ease life’s challenges. Maintaining a strong connection with Allah through Dua (supplication) is key to achieving everything we desire.
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